Birth date: Mar 12, 1996 Death date: May 8, 2013
On May 8th, we lost our beautiful, precious gift, Dylan Gene Cheek. Born March 12, 1996, Dylan attended E.O.C. where he received his G.E.D. then aspired to go to college. Dylan was a loving young man who enjoyed the outdoors, bein Read Obituary
Dylan was born on March 12, 1996. Even from childhood he was immensely loving. He always wanted to help others, and was constantly concerned about those around him. Dylan had the biggest heart a little boy could have.
Dylan was my right hand man. Whether we were digging in the yard or trying to build something, he was always there, by my side. Two of our favorite things to do together were fish and hunt. We spent endless hour with poles in our hands, sharing stories, laughing at jokes, and enjoying each others company. We were much more than father and son - we were friends.
One thing about Dylan is he always did things to the extreme, he loved hard, he played hard, and he fell hard. If Dylan put his mind to something, there was no question that he was going to reach his goal. When pursuing his GED he was told, “Most people don’t pass the first time, don’t get discouraged.” His response was, “I’m not most people.” Dylan took that test and passed the first time. His confidence, intelligence, and passion were always commendable.
When Dylan became a father many people questioned his ability to be responsible at such a young age. Anyone could see though, with a single glance, Dylan was a wonderful Dad. Kiara was Dylan’s pride and joy. He loved her and cherished the time he spent with her. As his father, watching the bond he had with Kiara, the pure love he had for her, made my heart swell.
Dylan’s mistakes didn’t define him. His loving actions, the smile on his face when he looked into his daughter’s eyes, his endless laughter, and his constant yearning to reach his dreams built the true foundation of his character.
Dylan’s words still ring true. He was not most people. He was my son. I am endlessly proud of Dylan’s accomplishments. Dylan’s journey in life ended much too soon. We need to remember that it is our journey, accomplishments and hardships, no matter how big or small, that is the legacy we leave behind. And like all journeys, we begin at home, and no matter how far we travel, we always end up back at home. I believe that Dylan is at home now.
Dylan, thank you for sharing 17 years with all of us. The love we have for you cannot be expressed adequately with words and we miss you more than can be imagined. You will continue to live on through us and through your daughter. The imprint you left on our hearts will never go away. Goodbye, my son.
My family wishes to express our heartfelt thanks to all those who have given their support, compassion, and love throughout this difficult time. I know in my heart that Dylan would not want us grieving for too long. Rather, he would want us to remember the good times that we all shared with him. We need to use these memories to keep him alive within us.
