I have seldom met a human being with more sparkle and love in his soul than Tom. He always greeted me (as he did everyone) with a bright twinkle in his eye and a slow, sly, deep smile, and every single time a spark of pure joy would jump from him to you and back again - an exchange of soul stuff. Anyone who was fortunate enough to be in his circle surely carries those bits of Tom' soul within them - I know I do, and it is one of the brightest slivers of soul that I have within me. From him I have learned appreciation, gentleness, the strength of being wholly present with your friends, and the preciousness of every moment. Thank you, Sifu, for your love and presence. Now it lies with me to continue the practice, in your name. For the love of Tom and the Grateful Dead ... Holly Dobbins.