My dear friends and family,
I am unable to believe my dear cousin and close, lifelong friend is now absent from us.
Michael and I were very close friends. We had disputes but I can say that no matter how exasperated he was with me, I never heard him use expletives or impolite language. He loved his family above all and only spoke of them with reverence. I can not remember any of his interests that did not revolve around them.
Michael knew that I do not accept the notion that life begins with birth and ends with death. Our genes are passed to our offspring exactly as they were passed to us.
We didn't exist for an infinity before we caught the contagious incongruity of life. A short interval later we resume our natural sessile state for another infinity and take our repose in its absolute certainty.
My friend is alive in his beautiful children. His essence is propagated through them. Each of them is his and Kristine's genetic manifestation. His life is continuing because of Michael, Joseph and Nicole.
Kristine was absolutely determined they would live to enjoy the gifts life provides and carry the genetic memory of thousands of the ancestors we share as expressed in our parents. Thank you, Kristine.
We can grieve only for and with the living. When we are glutted with despair can we can recall the very positive things Michael brought to us. He brought many good things to us.
Kristine, Joseph Michael, Michael Joseph, Nicole, Uncle Joe, Patrick, Billy and the rest of our common friends and family, please be strong and endure this as we have when we were denied the presence and comfort of another of us.
I will carry my grief quietly but permanently.
Michael, you will always be my friend and close cousin. I am diminished by your absence. I am watching over Michael, Joseph and Nicole for you. I will protect them and do my best to corrupt them - just like I tried to corrupt you.
Rest now.
Mark