Paul,
I remember a shy and quiet kid that attended Saint Cecilia’s, along with Cindy, his name was Paul. We survived that school and the “pork chop” incident with Sister Ann is a great memory. I remember playing basketball at the school and football in Mr. Cavedine’s yard. Even then Paul loved to laugh and live. We cruised in your Impala (da imp) during high school and “Shorty” made his debut. I remember you and Cindy going on your first date. Your infectious laugh and zest for life won her over. You picked up speed and seemed to be cramming in as much during life as possible. I laughed remembering our road trip with Pasquale and Jay to Virginia Beach, (taking the show on the road and invading another state). We hung out at the “Room and West”, I laugh remembering your dance moves to “Super Freak”. You found another gear, overdrive, and thereafter, never seemed to rest or even need rest. I remember double dating, attending one another’s weddings and being on hand when our kids were born. I realized you were not only my friend but my brother. I left Solvay 30 years ago and we always stayed in touch, that I miss already. I will miss the late night talks about our kids, their future and our life’s many ups and downs. I cried when I heard the news and laughed as a lifetime of memories came flooding back. You were a major part of my life and that void will never be filled. Like many others discovered, you were always ready to help and could brighten up anyone’s day. An encounter with Shorty was always an intense emotional event that started with a hug. His energy, love and laughter were transferred to all who encountered him. Paul didn’t believe in strangers, strangers were simply friends he hadn’t met yet. I cried at first, because you were gone and my heart went out to your family and friends. I can only offer my condolences to your wife, children, family and friends. Yet, I catch myself laughing and smiling as I reflect on a lifetime of great memories, I am so thankful that you were part of my life. I love you brother!
